I am not a lawyer and nothing in this post is legal advice. But I have seen enough wedding contracts to know that most couples treat them as a formality rather than a document that actually matters.
A vendor contract is the only thing standing between you and a serious problem if something goes wrong. Read it.
Confirm the date, time, and location in writing.
This sounds obvious. You would be surprised how often a contract is signed without the couple confirming that the specific date, ceremony start time, and venue address are correct in the document. Check every detail against what you discussed verbally.
Understand exactly what is included.
Specifically: how many hours are covered? What happens if the event runs long? Is there an overtime rate, and what is it? For photographers and videographers — how many edited images or what deliverables are included? For caterers — what is the per-person rate and what does it cover?
Scope creep is how weddings go over budget. A contract that defines scope clearly protects both you and the vendor.
The cancellation and refund policy.
Life happens. Read this section carefully. Most vendors keep a deposit if you cancel, which is fair — they turned away other bookings for your date. But understand what the policy is for different cancellation timelines. Some contracts have no refund at all after a certain point. Some offer partial refunds. Know what you are agreeing to before you sign.
Also read what happens if the vendor cancels. A good contract spells out what the vendor owes you in that case — a full refund at minimum, and sometimes a referral to a replacement.
The substitution clause.
This is the one most couples miss. For photographers and DJs especially, make sure the contract specifies that the person you met and hired is the person who will be at your wedding. Some contracts allow the company to send a substitute without your approval. That is not acceptable. If the specific person matters to you, get it in writing.
Force majeure and weather clauses.
Especially relevant for outdoor venues and destination weddings. Understand what the contract says about extreme weather, public health emergencies, or other events outside anyone''s control. Does the vendor offer a date change? A partial refund? Nothing?
Payment schedule.
Most vendors require a deposit to hold the date and the remainder on or before the wedding day. Confirm the amounts and due dates, and make sure you have a way to pay that you will have access to on the day — some venues charge a facility fee that is due on departure.
The simplest thing I can tell you.
If a vendor does not have a written contract, that is a red flag. A vendor who has been doing this professionally has a contract. If they are offering to work on a handshake and a deposit, they are either very new or very disorganized, and both of those are problems.
Contracts protect everyone. A good vendor wants one as much as you do.
With love, Verla